The wedding day is a whirlwind of emotions, happy tears, and picture-perfect moments. But the magic often begins a little earlier, at the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Here, surrounded by loved ones, couples get a chance to practice their walk down the aisle and celebrate their upcoming nuptials.
As a wedding photographer, capturing these pre-wedding festivities is a question I get asked often: Should you include the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner in your photography package?
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but let’s explore the pros and cons to help you decide what’s right for your special day.
Capturing the Candid Moments:
- Pros: The rehearsal and rehearsal dinner offer a glimpse into a more relaxed and intimate side of your love story. These candid moments – toasts from loved ones, funny rehearsal mishaps, and the joy of celebrating with family – can be beautifully documented.
- Cons: Rehearsals can be a bit chaotic, and the lighting might not be ideal. However, with experience, photographers can capture these moments authentically without being intrusive.
Building Rapport and Comfort:
- Pros: Having your photographer present at the rehearsal allows you to get comfortable with them before the big day. This can ease any nerves about being photographed and ensures a smooth flow on your wedding day.
- Cons: If you’re on a tight budget, adding the rehearsal and dinner might not be feasible.
A Memento for You (and Your Guests):
- Pros: Formal photos at the rehearsal dinner can be a cherished memory for both you and your guests. These photos capture the excitement leading up to the ceremony and showcase the joy of celebrating with loved ones.
- Cons: Guests might already be taking photos on their phones, so capturing formal portraits might not be a priority for everyone.
Making the Decision:
Ultimately, the decision of including the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner in your photography package is a personal one. Here are some things to consider:
- Your Budget: How important is capturing these pre-wedding events to you? Does it fit comfortably within your overall budget?
- Your Photography Style: Do you prefer candid or more formal photos? Knowing your preference will help you decide if the rehearsal and dinner offer the types of shots you’d like documented.
- Your Comfort Level: Would having your photographer present feel intrusive or add to the overall celebration?
Open Communication is Key!
No matter what you decide, open communication with your photographer is essential. Discuss your expectations and any specific moments you’d like captured at the rehearsal or dinner.
Remember, the most important thing is to capture the joy and love that surrounds your wedding celebration. Whether it’s the big day or the pre-wedding festivities, let’s create lasting memories you’ll cherish forever.
